Soul ties: Choose wisely

Proverbs 1:10(GW) My son, if sinners lure you, do not go along.

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A soul tie in  essence is  something that you are connected to  on  a deeper level; This can be a  positive or  negative  thing.  So how do you decide   if  the  one your  are connected  to is a  positive thing or  a negative thing? Well  ask  yourself this  is  the relationship that you are  currently connected to  pushing  you  closer or further away from God?

Choosing Wisely....

It is  important to know the intentions of the  people you invest your time with.  Are the two of you on the same page of what you want   out the relationship does your moral compass line  up with him/her?  So many  dive  head first  into a relationship based on  lust or in effort to fill the void of loneliness having    never really  discussed  what each of you require.   Let's be real the cupcake phase will end  and  your clouded  vision will dissipate so when that happens you want to make sure that your time was well spent and that  you have no regrets.

Compromise...

God  has specific intentions  for each our lives  we don't have time to compromise  our values to  please  someone who  doesn't our best interest in mind.   Remember,  your purpose isn't just  for you other  lives are connected to  mission,  your light in this world   shouldn't be diminished in order  to please someone else's self serving  desires. 

What is Love?

Well let's start with what love isn't : Love isn't  pressuring  you into sex before marriage,   love isn't asking to be anyone other than  who God  created you to be , love  isn't  self-serving. Real love  is nurturing each others  purpose and keeping each other  accountable,  love is wanting to the other succeed because  you share the same mission in chasing after the  will of  God.

If you find yourself in a  crossroad in your relationship take time to reevaluate if  where you are is where you  really want to be. Cut  those ties that distract you from  God and leaves  you broken ,  trust that  God  knows exactly what you need and allow Him   to write your love story.

Love,