1 Corinthians 15:33 (GNT) Do not be fooled. “Bad companions ruin good character.”
What's important is what we take away from each relationship. The lesson in each instance is deciphering who add's to your life , pushes you to be a better person and closer to Christ vs. those who constantly subtract and drain you. Not everyone is meant to go in the same direction as you some relationships are toxic and distract you from your purpose. So going into each relationship weather it's a friend or a significant other keep your eye's open don't gloss over issues don't hold on to someone based on familiarity. When that season is over leave it there and move forward.
Now I'm not saying you should cut every person off who you have a disagreement with. What I'm saying is that you should pray for discretion in each relationship. You need to know what your purpose is in the relationship as well. Is there advice or wisdom that they can gain from knowing you that will help them later down the road? As believers you may be the only window into Christ that they've ever experienced so cutting someone off isn't always the answer. In these instances listen to the leading of the holy spirit pray and ask for direction.
Let's talk about it:
Have you every been in a toxic relationship; How did you know when it was time to let that relationship go?
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