Do you really have haters though? Could it be you talk too much and listen very little; how do you speak to other's ? An overly opinionated individual that give unsolicited or thoughtless advice may come off as a judgmental and this can definitely be a major turn off . Choosing your words and your tone wisely is vital to any relationship. A general rule of thumb in a conversation is to listening intently, don't just wait from a break in the conservation to blurt out what you think.
Those who are careful about what they say protect their lives but whoever speaks without thinking will be ruined. -Proverbs 13:3 (NCV)
Within any relationship be it a friendship or significant other it is important that you can be trusted and with any conversation between the two of you establish it to be a no judgement zone. Also be open to be poured into, don't be so full of your own wisdom that you miss out on a word that could potentially change your life.
Often our sour behavior is a byproduct of our past hurts or betrayal. What are you carrying from your past and projecting into new relationships? Remember, no one deserves to bare the brunt of your brokenness. Life can weigh you down and it is easy to become bitter and think everyone is out to get you but often times other are only reacting off of what your projecting outwardly. If you are wrestling with issues talk to God and allow him to search your heart and heal you so that you can move forward.
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